Tight vnc Install Details
To install tightvnc to have a remote window into your Pi
from the terminal enter
"sudo apt-get install tightvncserver"
this will install tightvnc
"vncserver :1 -geometry 1280x800 -depth 16 -pixelformat rgb565:"
this will set up the "screen" params
your will be promted to set up a password - note it can only be 8 chars long
from your other computer connect using Ultra VNC Viewer
enter the IP address of your Pi
you will now be prompted for the password
enter password and you should now be able to "see" your raspberry pi desktop..